Option 2: Explain and identify communication processes as they occur in marriage. Identify and discuss how marital rules link with marital communication, conflict, and marital functioning. Discuss how you would assess marital rules and their relationship to communication and conflict. Consider how to help a premarital couple who are not
Read MoreWe can’t believe it is already November! As I reflect back on this year I’d like to share three things: proudest moment, most humbling moment, surprise of the year. Thank you for
Read MoreThis past weekend my daughters convinced me to watch the highly acclaimed movie La La Land starring Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone and directed by Damien Chazelle. Music has always been a
Read MoreBack in the summer a local reporter sent me a list of questions on the topic of conflicts for a subscription based magazine. While only portions of my answers were published, I
Read More“Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves.” Genesis 3:7 NIV The very first
Read More«Lord, remember David and all his self-denial.» Psalms 132:1 NIV The context of this verse I remember very well, it was about David’s desire to build God a temple. The beginning of
Read More«If anyone loudly blesses their neighbor early in the morning, it will be taken as a curse.» Proverbs 27:14 Timing and tone are important. To share a blessing is a good thing,
Read More«Surely you need guidance to wage war, and victory is won through many advisers.” Proverbs 24:6 NIV The moment we stop learning is the moment we start declining. Life is a continuum,
Read MoreThis morning I was reading a book and the author talked about “soulmate shopping” and consumerism applied to dating (Deal, 2012). After pondering on this topic, I came to the conclusion “shopping
Read More«Know that the Lord is God. It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.» Psalms 100:3 NIV God is our maker,
Read MoreThe story of man and creation, according to the Bible, begins in the second chapter of the book of Genesis where the author writes in Genesis 2:7 “Then the Lord God formed
Read More“For you make me glad by your deeds, Lord; I sing for joy at what your hands have done.” Psalms 92:4 NIV Happiness is something we all want. I see this on
Read More“If you say, “The Lord is my refuge,” and you make the Most High your dwelling, no harm will overtake you, no disaster will come near your tent.” Psalms 91:9-10 NIV This
Read More“I will not violate my covenant or alter what my lips have uttered.” Psalms 89:34 NIV In relationships there are two columns that bear the weight of the entire bond: trust and
Read More“Like a maniac shooting flaming arrows of death is one who deceives their neighbor and says, “I was only joking!”” Proverbs 26:18-19 NIV To say what we mean and mean what we
Read More“Who can say, “I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and without sin”?” Proverbs 20:9 NIV The Bible isn’t a “downer” but it grounds us all to earth. Generally speaking
Read MoreYesterday Tracy and I were invited to share at a women’s retreat at Boca Raton Community Church hosted by City House. Her talk topic was CHOICES and of course I think she
Read More“I am the Lord your God, who brought you up out of Egypt. Open wide your mouth and I will fill it.” Psalms 81:10 NIV Yesterday I was invited to share about
Read More“Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.” Proverbs 18:2 NIV This past week I remember working with 4 couples, and in all 4 of them the
Read More“A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” Proverbs 17:22 NIV I believe laughter is a great medicine. We see it when working with couples sometimes
Read More“Wisdom’s instruction is to fear the Lord, and humility comes before honor.” Proverbs 15:33 NIV Behind every beautiful morning there’s a dark night. Before we have honor a price must be paid.
Read More“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” Proverbs 13:20 NIV The Bible doesn’t say walk with the wise and you’ll become wise, walk with the
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